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It takes me immense pleasure in defining ‘crush’. Crush is ‘’an attraction that an individual generates in his mind about another individual of opposite gender, initiated by visual experience”. Crush is something that makes you to watch her again. The pleasure will be mild in your heart.
If am given a chance to say in and outs of crush, I would say there are 3 stages of crush. The theory analyses not only crush but relation with the crush.
Stage1 – Eyecrush
Here it is the very inception of crush. Just by 1 look you gets attracted. In this stage any external stimuli which makes you to go near to your crush, will make yo happy. This is actually when you want yourself be connected with that person. You try to find a link where you can go near reach that person. You will be eager about the coming days. The very requirement for growth from 2st stage to second stage is more and more visual experience. But if it doesn’t happen, your orientation may get diverted.
Stage 2 – Talkcrush
Here your relation would have become stronger than in 1st stage. You know your crush well and she knows that you have crush on her. Here you lose the initial visual pleasure. But will have metal pleasure of being connected. You like to talk more than see more. Here you will have strong hold.
Stage 3 – Tiecrush
This is a stage where your crush starts going away from you. The reasons are many external variables which affects your crush’s mind. She may not find you as curiously as before. You may be more inclined towards making it harder. Neither visual pleasure nor mental coordination takes place.
These stages are not must to happen. You might have stopped yourself in any of the stage or some stage might have taken a long term. For eg: you are just watching your crush. By the time you try to get closer to your crush, you see that already someone has taken her to another stage.
Or maybe the circumstances changed that another stage has become...