Gay marriage seems to be a hot topic in today’s news. Slowly states are beginning to legalize gay marriage. The latest state to do this was New Jersey just a short few weeks ago. Although our governor said no the judge ruled that gay marriage was a violation of our amendment rights. If they continued to allow no gay marriage it may as well invalidate everything we stand for. I could not agree more. The fact that fourteen out of fifty states allow same sex marriage is insane. As I was looking for sources I actually came across a list of “pros and cons” to allowing gay marriage. My jaw dropped to due to the fact that how could there be a pros and cons list to something like this. One of the pros and cons included “allowing gay couples to wed it would weaken the institution of marriage” (gay marriage pros). They’re excuse was that divorce rates are already high so same sex marriage would just make it worse. I personally believe that is just ridiculous. Allowing gay marriage in my opinion is great. We should be able to marry and love whomever we may please. I come from a very catholic background and my aunt came out of the closet years ago. Although in the bible it is said that homosexuality is wrong my grandparent accepted my aunt. I hear all the time about people being kicked out of their homes because they came out to their parents. Being gay as a whole is just difficult forget about gay marriage. Getting married seems impossible if you are gay. I found another article on gay marriage and why it is wrong. Once again the reasons are just outlandish for lack of better words. Some of the reasons included “it turns a moral wrong into a civil right, its not marriage, it offends god, it denies a child of a mother or a father” (10 reasons). How senseless could they possibly be? It is not a real marriage because they aren’t a man and women? I think we need to put those people in their shoes. How would we feel if we were told we could marry the person we love because it is...